The Power of Patience: a necessary step in the creation process.

April 22nd, 2007

Chery and Joel’s Law of Attraction Lesson Series #3

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Cheryl and Joel Steinberg

“Patience” is one of the most advanced and critical “nuggets” of technique that must be mastered in order to have the law of attraction work properly for you. Without patience, sooner or later you are doomed to failure.

In fact, this is one of the most devious and common stumbling blocks to the “advanced” students of the Secret and the teachings of Abraham. Most people who really dive into this work and seem to be on the fast track in terms of being very diligent in their processes, their emotions, and their vibrational output often fall into the patience trap. That is because their expectancy is elevated and their focus on their results is intensified. It is very easy to develop a habit of ‘taking score”.

If you are not manifesting your every wish as fast as you would like than you can be in trouble if you lose your patience. Lack of patience means you are observing “what is” and you are vibrating around thoughts of:
“where is it”? or
“why isn’t it hear yet? or
“how come this happened or showed up, I didn’t ask for that? or
“why is it taking so long? “

Any of these thoughts can be fatal to the success of your process and your ultimate goals. They will get you stuck. And then your attention to your stuckness will take you for a ride…straight down! You will find yourself right back on the hamster wheel to no-where and the law of attraction will even help it start spinning for you. This is when you can start to feel like you cant do this work or it is not for you. This is when many people quit.

Patience was the missing and necessary ingredient to success. It is critical. Patience is about acceptance of where you are right now. Patience is about looking for your joy in the now so you can enjoy the journey. Patience is about looking for all the things in your life right now that you are grateful for. Patience is about eagerly anticipating all the wonderful things that are on its way to you without any real concern about how long it will take. But mostly, patience has to do with having “faith”, because if you truly have “faith” that the process will work in time, then you will have no reason to lose your patience.

It is no coincidence that almost all major religious systems have “faith” as a key part of their teachings. Think about it, Christianity, Judiasm, Buddism, Hinduis, Sufi, Muslim…all have a faith component in God or something higher. But what does faith mean? It means TRUST. Trust in God or whatever form of God you choose. The message given is… do not waiver from having faith….…you must trust or you will not receive or experience or access the power of God in your life. Even our founding fathers in our beloved USA thought enough of this concept to embroider “In God We Trust” on every monetary note.

The message of faith further refers to the rules of the religious system. Faith in what God stands for. It is almost universally agreed that God stands for some kind of power or powerful being, or higher consciousness…beyond our human capability. Something that is stronger than us, more powerful than us, older than us, more knowing than us. Of course some teachings understand and preach that the power of God resides within us, but not all get and interpret this message. But there does seem to be some universal agreement that it is about life force and possibly the source of all things.

The great religious teachings tell us that in order to have access to this great power in your life, to be able to manifest miracles in your life, to have an amazing life, you need to have faith. You need to “believe”. Believe what? Believe the rules that you must follow to connect with God or to access the power of God. The great teachers are all talking about what the rules are. Jesus, Mohammed, the teachings in the Talmud, the Koran…they are books of rules. And if you “trust’ the rules and have faith you will access the power of God or whatever form of God in your life.

This concept of faith also comes into play with the teachings of The Secret. Jerry and Ester Hicks with their Abraham teachings also present the rules as clearly as you could ever want it. Simply stated, they just tell us to believe in and follow the science of the law of attraction and use your connection to source (ie. your emotions) as your guide to stay on the path to access a power greater than you have ever known. With this power, you can create any life you want in time.

But you must believe. You must have faith. It is from here that you will have your power of patience. If you are patient, it means you really trust. You trust it is coming. You trust it is working. You don’t lose that trust even if it takes a long time. You allow yourself to be a believer. You give the benefit of the doubt times 100. You don’t question, you don’t worry, you don’t get frustrated. You do your processes, you manage your vibration, you stay positive at all costs and you wait. If you find yourself losing your patience then you step up your processes even more until you feel good again.

On The Secret, they say you Ask, Believe, and Receive. The “believe” step is about being patient while you wait for your wishes to show up. Otherwise you begin injecting negative thoughts, negative questioning, second guessing, negative feelings and negative vibration into your experiences… and down you go, hurtling away vibrationally from everything you are trying to achieve.

And when you hit bottom, you will say, “what just happened?”…Some will climb back on the horse again to give it another try. But not knowing what happened leaves you vulnerable to the same lack of patience mistake again. Each failure takes away your power to succeed if you don’t understand what is causing your failure. This is the common trap for so many. And if you fail a couple of times without truly understanding why it did not work, then you are likely done with this program.

Having patience means you never give up. You never stop believing, not matter how bad things may “seem”. And when you master patience, you have learned to vibrate hope and eager anticipation of what is yet to come. You have learned to make the best of the vibration you are in. You have learned to accept where you are at. You have learned to have gratitude during the wait.

Since you hold this feeling and vibration with you in the midst of not having it yet, the universe is getting a clear signal of what to bring you…so it will come. In the meantime, your life is full of joy, even in the midst of your lack. Why, because you are deliberately choosing thoughts that feel good, no matter what. Abraham (Ester Hicks) refers to this as being in a state of “allowing”. They even call it “The Law of Allowing”. In other words, our work is to do whatever it takes to keep our vibration high while we are waiting for the changes we have been wishing for. In this way we can vibrationally “receive” those wonderful things. If we let our vibration sink too low, we are no longer a match to what we are wanting and it cannot come to us.

If you have mastered the art of thinking about what it will be like to have what you want, then your life is already improved, even without the thing you are asking for. This is because you will be feeling good doing this process. When you feel good your life is improved right now.

Now your work is to master your patience and not worry about how long things take to materialize. It is perfectly OK to take notice of the “signs” of things that show up which indicate your wish is getting closer. If you wished for a red jaguar and they start showing up everywhere including your neighbor’s driveway, then celebrate the fact that the universe has her wheels in motion trying to bring it to you. DO NOT WORRY that it is not here yet.

The best attitude to have comes from the following example: Imagine you have purchased a bottle of vitamins from the same internet catalogue company for 3 years. Every month you place an order, and two weeks later your bottle arrives, like clockwork. They never let you down. So now when you order your product, the two week waiting period for the vitamins to arrive is filled with absolute knowing, absolute trust, that it will arrive. You have no doubt. You still have to go the two weeks without it, but you know it is coming. That is the attitude you have to have when you do this work.

Go to the library or scan the internet and research books and stories of people who turned around a terminal illness. There are tons of stories. You will see that almost all these people had something in common. They had an undying faith in the outcome they wanted. They made a decision! I will beat this! And then they had Patience while holding this belief. They turned their attention from “what is” to “how it will be”. They did not allow the very heavy and negative thoughts of horrible outcomes to enter their experience. They did not keep their focus on how bad things were currently but intead they focused on the future and on what they wanted. And finally, they achieved the outcome they were wanting. The outcome was their very life.

Just remember, great things are worth waiting for. And if you focus on loving your journey while you basque in your waiting, you are already having it all.

Joel’s Meditation Journal entry- 4-17-07

April 21st, 2007

Joel Steinberg at Big Sur, CA

This meditation journal entry derives from a weekly meditation group/workshop that Joel takes part in with other people who are interested in spiritual advacement.  As a group we all move into individual meditative states and call forth any inspiration that may come forth as we listen to meditative music.  It is very similar to a self hypnotherapy process and helps to induce a relaxed mild trance like state.  In this stae we then allow the communications, words, or thoughts we receive to come thru in our writings as we journal our experience.  The following is an entry from one of Joel’s meditations.


Letting go,
Letting go,
Letting go.
What does it mean?
To not care?
It means to accept.
It means to have no judgment.
It means to allow.
It means to not be attracted to any outcome.
It means to celebrate all outcomes.
All Outcomes!
You WIN no matter what.
You embrace what is.
Just say “thank you, thank you, thank you”.
It just doesn’t matter what happens – it really doesn’t.
There is no wrong path – no wrong choices – no bad decisions- no mistakes – ever!
You are never wrong – every choice leads you to heaven.
See the heaven in everything that comes.
Just say “thank you”
Just say “thank you”
Accept, accept, accept.
You are not running out of time.
You have all the time in the world.
Time will never end.
Your life is eternal.
Your death is but another of your infinite beginnings
Tomorrow is yet another beginning of an infinite eternity
There is no rush
There never has been but what you make it
There is no list that must be completed – it is an illusion that you make real.
Let go
Let go
Let go
Feel your connection to All That Is.
Receive your blessings that are always flowing to you.
Let it in
Allow your God Force to thrive – and be alive
Expect bliss - and it is yours forever.
Nothing to do – nothing at all
Sit back and enjoy the show.
Just let go
Breathe in your peace – right now is a good time.
Your life is perfect
You are perfect
Your world is perfect
Let go of all around you.
All is Well.
All is perfect – even the earth is perfect just where it is.
Feel love everywhere you look.
See the God Force in everyone’s eyes.
You know the truth.
Nothing to fix – no one to save
Everything is Divine.
All paths lead to Source – no exceptions!
We are all moving in and out of Source Energy.
Our birth is an instant of awareness focus
Our life is an instant of awareness focus.
Our death is an instant of awareness focus.
We thrive forever – we soar forever – we never end
Let go now
You know all you need to know.
You may use your powers as you choose – or just receive
what comes and bless it – it does not matter – there is no wrong.
Many miracles will be unfolding to you.
As you let go your powers will expand greatly.
As you let go your limits and fears will melt away.
You will no longer be holding yourself down in the physical realm of limitations
You will soar
You will fly
Everything will be easy
Miracles will flow with a wink of an eye.
Nothing left to do but love.
Love all of who you are
Love all that comes into your world
Love the world that you have conjured
Sing, dance, love, play, explore, cuddle, hug, party, embrace, run, jump, skip, drive, swim, sail, sleep, rest, observe, breathe
Enjoy your dream
Enjoy all your dreams.

The Law of Attraction is an exact science (if you dont get it right, it won’t work)

April 8th, 2007

 

Cheryl and Joel’s Law of Attraction Lesson Series #2

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Joel and Cheryl Steinberg

Most people have read the Secret Book by now or watched the DVD. Those people who were “moved” by the message and the teachings have probably charged forward with their visualizations, ‘vision boards”, and deliberate positive thinking about what they want in their life. This is a good thing. Anyone who makes a shift of the normal way they spend thinking about their day or about their life, or future is on the way to altering the typical outcome that they have gotten used to seeing. Instead of just living your life by “default” where you just bop along and take what you get and then deal with it, these newly motivated people are trying to take charge of their life and make an impact. Many, many people would like to improve their lives in almost every area including wealth, health, relationships, self image, careers, or just learning how to become happier more often.

Many people have been struggling to accomplish growth throughout their lives but have experienced intense frustration and inconsistency. For most of us it has been a roller coaster. Life is good, sometimes great and then it sucks and it is a struggle. Then it gets good and maybe great again and then you take two steps back again. It’s wonderful, it sucks, it’s wonderful, it sucks. I bet no one can relate? Sometimes we hit it big with money but our relationship suffers. Perhaps our relationships are good but our health or finances are falling apart. Sometimes we feel we have made it and suddenly unexpected events send us reeling. Finding true success in every area along with true balance and ease has been an unreachable reality for most of us. It is a myth for many. Even when we have a lot of “things” in our life we still may not be as happy or passionate or as excited as we would hope to be.

So it is not surprising that The Secret has been the nation’s number one selling book now for over two months. People want answers on how to get off the hamster wheel to nowhere. People want the manual on the simple and easy rules of creation that were never really given to us as children. We want the rules to give us some sense of control and to once and for all get ahead…in all areas…and to make it sustainable as well as keeping our balance. And we don’t want it to be so gosh darn hard (expletive deleted).

Is it too greedy, materialistic, and self absorbed to want it all? No, just the opposite. Look around. The problems in the world come from a lack mentality. People who are victims or have little attract more problems for themselves and others. It is easy to see that people who often feel like they have nothing to give, don’t give. Some selfless ones do of course. But imagine what they could give if they had it all? The most philanthropy comes from the people who created the most from nothing, like Bill Gates, or Warren Buffet. When you have it all I bet you will give back and help others in big ways, I am sure of it. As you soar you will uplift those around you. You will be an example on how the process works. I have seen this often in my own life.

The naysayers who are coming forward to put down the Secret as hogwash clearly have no clue about using the principals properly in their life. It has either never worked for them if they understood and tried it or else they really don’t understand it. If it did work for them, then they would be an advocate and spokesperson, not an adversary. The teachers on The Secret are advocates and spokespersons of the principals because they have mastered its applications and in many cases turned their lives from rags to riches. Oprah included. I have done it myself and so has my wife who eloquently tells her story in a book she wrote:
Becoming Cinderella: A Single Mother’s Journey from Tatters to Triumph (www.becomingcinderella.com)

Yes, we are talking about having it all. But more importantly, we all want to have it all without the intense struggle, energy, and sacrifice we believe is required. How many of us believe we can just transform our roller coaster life from ordinary to spectacular in every area without putting in intense energy or sacrifice or exhaustive effort? How many of us feel we just don’t have what it takes. How many of us feel it is just plain impossible at this point in our lives? Yet that is the promise of the teachings of the Secret. They teach that everyone can “have it all” and the ’secret” to having it all is easy. They teach that it doesn’t require exhaustive effort, energy, and sacrifice. It just requires a detailed understanding and disciplined application of the “law of attraction”. And it does not matter who you are, it works for everyone if they apply the principles properly.

This is a concept that society is not completely ready yet to embrace. Most people just don’t believe it. Now some are calling it “junk science”. But I know the principles really do work. And it works from wherever you are at in your life. Whether your life is a mess or you are already soaring and you still want it to get better. But you must understand the rules of how creation really works. You can’t “almost” understand it. You have to completely understand the principals so you understand how you are vibrating about any particular subject. That is the bottom line. Many people think they understand this work but they are still putting out the wrong vibration on a regular basis and getting poor results. Then they blame the process saying it doesn’t work. It is about “perfecting” the art of applying the law of attraction. If it is not done correctly it will not work, period!

THE LAW OF ATTRACTION IS AN EXACT SCIENCE. It is the quantum physics of consciousness. It is not subjective. It does not judge what you put out. It is an energy attraction process. The universe will “deliver the goods” to you by matching your general vibration pattern that you are putting out on any particular subject. It doesn’t care about your words really. The key is how you are feeling about what you are saying. Only in your feelings can you gauge your vibrational output. Your emotions are your vibrational guidance system. If you say “I want to have a lot of money”, and you are thinking, feeling, and vibrating to the universe “yeah right, I’ll never have a lot of money, who am I kidding”, what future “wish” have you placed with the vibrational Genie of the universe? Your money will never come if you don’t find a way to imagine what it would feel like when and if you already had it. That is the key.

If you can play the part of being rich for a day in your mind or as an exercise then that would be one real way to help yourself toward attracting what you want. Journal about it, role play with a friend, anything, but you must put out the right feeling signal to the universe and you must learn to do it regularly without contradicting it. Then you need to trust the process, and believe and expect it will come. In fact, you must, or it will not come. You want to keep your vibrations aligned with what you want, not put your attention on the lack of it. If you give up hope too soon you are going the wrong way vibrationally and you will ultimately attract the lack of that which you are wanting. So patience is also an important key and I will discuss that more in my next blog.

If you don’t offer the “correct” vibration to the universe about what it feels like to have what you want then none of your visualizations, positive intentions, vision boards, prayers, journals or whatever else you do will work. Now of course, many people have found a way to have a lot of money for example, by working hard, or getting the right education, or the right job. And it all works because you “believe” those actions and efforts will yield good money. You expect it. So your vibrational output is one of expecting to receive money for the right efforts and the universe delivers. If you “believe” hard work can get you good pay, then you are vibrationally aligned with that and it will come as long as you do hard work. But you also believe and vibrate that you cannot have good money if you don’t do hard work. You are now limited by that belief and it becomes your reality unless you change it.

Most people now practicing these principals are not really in touch with their routine vibrational output, yet they are ‘saying or writing the right things”, but they are not properly feeling them. These people will see no results and then they will come forward and call the secret hogwash on the next Oprah show or write a scathing editorial in USA today..

How you vibrate is everything. It decides what “orders” you are placing right now for your future. If you master this you can change your life…that is a fact. Anyone on this planet who has done it correctly has seen concrete evidence and results that it works and they will advocate the process. Anyone who challenges it, has not mastered this truth, you can be sure.

The Power of “Pivoting” your Thoughts

March 12th, 2007

Cheryl and Joel’s Law of Attraction Lesson Series #1
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Joel and Cheryl Steinberg

Everybody is still talking about the Secret (book and DVD) and the Law of Attraction. Now the question is, who is applying the principles and are they achieving results?

Applying the principles of the law of attraction is easy but it does take action and there is some effort on your part.

If you understand the work, the bottom line is that you will receive what you put out vibrationally. The Universe will match your vibrational output of every “now” moment signal you are putting out and bring back an event, a thing, a person, a thought, a feeling, or any form of manifestation that is similar to the vibrations you are sending. So the “effort” or “work” part is to become masters of our own vibrational output.

We can do this most effectively by controlling and “choosing” what we think about. Since our emotions are essentially our “vibration meter” we can immediately “feel” if we are successfully thinking the right thoughts or not. If it feels “good”, we are vibrating in a way that is bringing us what we want, so keep doing what you are doing and keep thinking what you are thinking. If we feel “bad”, we are vibrating right now in a way that is attracting what we don’t want. Since you don’t want to do that, your “work” is now to “pivot” your thoughts toward something else until you get an emotional signal that feels good. You may need to completely ignore the subject of what you are thinking about and divert yourself to a completely different subject that feels good or look for a different perspective about the subject that feels good.

If you find yourself in a very negative situation that is in your face, and it is difficult to ignore, then I recommend looking immediately for the best possible perspectives, hopes, or outcomes until you feel some emotional relief. Remember, the Law of Attraction is magnetic. If you look for thoughts that feel good, it will assist you by bringing you more thoughts that feel good and on and on. It will help you create an upward spiral of better feeling thoughts. The sooner you “pivot” yourself in this direction of better feeling thoughts the better.

The more you stay in the negativity, the more the law of attraction will bring you bad feeling thoughts. It is a downward spiral. The longer you stay the more you will attract more bad thoughts, more bad situations, more people to discuss it with, etc. Have you ever found yourself stuck “obsessing” over a negative situation? It means you are in the grasps of the law of attraction. To avoid this it is important you pivot away from bad feeling “thoughts” as soon as possible even if you are still in the midst of a horrendous situation. It is especially important in those situations.

If you are doing the work effectively and routinely, there is a tremendous byproduct, you will feel good more often right now. You may even feel great, alive, passionate, excited, empowered, safe, strong, energetic, full of life force, etc. What do you think you will be attracting in your life if you are more routinely putting out that kind of vibration?

If you don’t do the routine “work” of pivoting your negative feelings, and you get stuck in your negative responses to your situation or to anything in your life, you will certainly spiral down emotionally. What kind of future will you expect to be attracting if you are feeling emotions that are angry, sad, depressed, exhausted, blame, fear, frustration, upset, impatient, helpless, pressured, etc.?

Change your thoughts NOW, NOW, NOW! Don’t wait. Don’t obsess, don’t call your friends to commiserate, don’t feel sorry for yourself, don’t engage victim thinking, don’t defend the way you feel, don’t indulge the unfairness, don’t expand on the circumstances, don’t fume, don’t figure it out, just get off it now and MOVE ON as quickly as you can. PIVOT your thoughts to something that feels better. Then from there, keep going until it feels even better. Climb the ladder out of your low vibration as quickly as you can before the Law of Attraction makes you too heavy to climb.

Your goal is to at least feel a sense of relief regarding any negative situation that is in your life or in your head. Then reach for thoughts of hope and positive outcomes until you feel your emotions going higher.

Thoughts are popping into your head all day long. Catch the ones that take you down. Can you feel it? Sometimes I can see my partner suddenly showing some anxiety. I will ask her, what’s the matter? She will say, I don’t know. I will ask her, what is the last thought you can remember that just popped into your mind? And suddenly a light bulb would go on as she remembered thinking about something she had to do and had forgotten about. Now she can pivot to a good thought about it. Many of us have “habits” of negative thought thinking. We don’t have to go for years of therapy to cleanse them. We just have to slowly master the art of “pivoting” a few of those negative thoughts to positive ones and the law of attraction will help you go from there. The more you do it, the more this will become your new habit and the easier it will become. If you stay with it consistently the older habits will start to transform. My new pattern of thinking and pivoting is now a new way of life for me.

Do this in the morning. Do this in the afternoon. Do this in the early evening. Do this at night. If you do, in 30-90 days your life will be dramatically different. The changes will start immediately just in the way you have empowered yourself to change your emotional affect to any situation. It could be with your job, your health, your finances, your relationship, your family, it doesn’t matter. The principals are the same. You will learn just how much you are in charge of your life. You will feel amazed and enlightened to know that you are the creator of your future that materializes in your life and in your world.

If you would like to read about a wonderful true life story of how my wife and I met using the Law of Attraction, please go to:
www.becomingcinderella.com

The Law of Attraction: No longer “The Secret”

March 2nd, 2007

Cheryl and Joel’s Law of Attraction Lesson Series - Intro

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If you haven’t heard of the “Law of Attraction” or “The Secret” by now you may be one of the very few.

Recently seen on Oprah Winfrey twice in the last 2 weeks and twice on Larry King live a couple of months ago, this DVD movie and book are sweeping our nation as well as many countries on the planet.
The book “The Secret” is already listed as #1 on the NY TImes Best Seller List as of today as well as #1 on the USA Today best seller list. Some of the teachers on the secret have professed to having a million hits on the Internet recently.

My wife Cheryl and myself are no strangers to the Law of Attraction. We have known about and applied these principals for some time in our life. In fact, we used the very principles of the Law of Attraction to find each other and create our life of living happily ever after. In fact, Cheryl just completed her book “BECOMING CINDERELLA, A Single Mother’s Journey from Tatters to Triumph” which chronicles her passionate journey as a modern-day Cinderella. Her book is available on her website: www.becomingcinderella.com

Her book profile includes:
“Her life-long dream of becoming a Mother unravels and unexpectedly takes her down a path which leaves her broken, defeated and in hopeless despair. As a 42-year-old single Mother, picking up the tattered pieces seems impossible. She then discovers “the secret” of
the Law of Attraction and transforms her life into a living fairy tale.

Cheryl bares her soul in sharing her experience of becoming a Mother, which is filled with a deep desire to connect with the spirits of her children. Her pregnancies inspire her to question our culture’s conventional approach to everything from pregnancy to childbirth, feminism to motherhood, and health to education. As she embraces her spiritual and maternal instincts her former husband stays staunch in his conservative viewpoints, causing their marriage to completely unravel.

Her awakening to her new parenting choices are harshly judged by the mainstream world. Unbelievably she loses the very things she treasures most in her life – her children. She is left in tatters.

Like Cinderella, she never stops believing that she can rise above her dire circumstances and have it all. She applies the principles of the Law of Attraction to create a business, attract her soul mate and live a magical life.

As Cheryl’s intimate story shows, today’s Cinderella is ready for conscious evolution. She does not need Prince Charming to rescue her. Manifesting a dream partner is merely confirmation of our own unlimited creative powers to rescue ourselves in any area of life. From wherever we are, each of us can use our own powers to create a new reality and make fairy tale dreams come true. “

I discovered the Law of Attraction about 10 years ago. I have always been on a search for the highest truth. I seemed to understand at a very young age that what we are all seeking is to be happy. I understood that happiness was an internal state of being. I also realized that almost everything people do in life is for the purpose to get more of it (happiness). Why do we think we need more money? We think we will be happier. Why do we want a nice car or a good career? Why do we want a family? Why do we want to look good? And on and on…

It quickly came to me that behind every desire is a motivation to feel good and ultimately be happy. Most people understand that. So as a young child that made me think….”gosh, so I need to study hard in school and get good grades, I need to go through 12 years of school and at least 4 years of college, maybe 8 for a total of up to 20 years of school (my entire childhood!) so that I can get a good job and make a lot of money. And why was I doing this? So I could be happy. “Hmmm….there must be an easier way” I thought. “If happiness is an internal state of being or a “feeling”, then perhaps there is a shortcut to creating it. Maybe I don’t need “things” to make me happy. Maybe I don’t need 20 years of school and a great job to make me happy”. So I embarked on my mission to seek the “truth” of how to find happiness. Along the way I learned the truth about everything. I even learned the truth about myself and how I developed my beliefs based on my upbringing and environment. I learned to understand how we get programmed and hypnotized by mistruths and myths and how that becomes our staunch beliefs by which we live.

I understand that the world is not what it seemed to be or the way it presented itself. More often than not I learned that black is white and white is black. Whether it be politics, corporations, medicine, education, or health, the underlying truth exposed great lies and myths. It only made my hunger for the highest truth keep growing. I came across and studied some of the greatest teachers and teachings. I studied concepts of the teachings of Yoga, Jesus Christ, Buddhism, Judaism, Gorgieff. I read the books by Deepak Chopra, Wayne Dyer, Pramahansa Yogananda, and many others. I even was drawn to the works of popular metaphysical channels such as Seth, Romtha (as seen in What the Bleep) and Lazaris.

It all opened my eyes and laid out the highest truths before me. But the greatest teachers of all were the teachings of Abraham presented by Jerry and Ester Hicks. What I loved most about the Abraham teachings was the amazing simplicity by which the information is presented. As an engineer, it is the greatest challenge to simplify the most complex problems, systems or equations in the most simplified fashion. This is referred to as coming up with the most elegant solution. An example would be the equation: 2116/1058…the more elegant way of saying the same thing is 1/2.

Abraham has the ability to take the most complex nature of all spirituality and highest truth, the likes of which I have heard from some of the greatest teachers on the planet, and deliver it in a fashion that children can easily understand. It is clear, it is simple, it is accurate, it is powerful. And most importantly, it is life altering. She teaches us how to access the great powers of the law of attraction and take responsibility for everything that we attract into our life. She teaches us how to “create” happiness right now and attract more of it just with our mind and thoughts.

I have been studying the Law of Attraction as taught by Abraham for almost 10 years. I have seen her in seminars many times and literally listened to over 200 audio tapes. It is no accident that she was one of the key instructors on the first edition of the Secret DVD. She is an unbelievable leader in this work, which has managed to stay out of the public eye. I am sure they had good reasons to keep their world low key by removing themselves from the second edition of the Secret DVD. It was amazing to see Ester speaking and teaching the concepts of creation in this movie. I cried seeing this powerful information being released to the mainstream world.

My life has been forever changed by these powerful teachings. I have manifest millions of dollars from bankruptcy. I have made serious injuries vanish. I have helped people reverse terminal illness. I have made pain vanish in seconds. I have made wind stop in minutes and thunderstorms turn into sunshine. I’ve had lost dogs quickly materialize. I have seen impossible things happen thousands of time. Miracles are routine, I am not kidding! I am a true believer because it works! All of these things have been made possible because of the great truth….the Law of Attraction and how to apply it.

Before I met Cheryl, I made a list of all the qualities I desired in a soul mate. It was 4 pages long with about 100 items on it. There was a part of me that certainly looked at this list and wanted to think, “there is no way you can find a match that comes close to having all these things you are looking for”. But I knew that with the proper application of the law of attraction, nothing is impossible. So I dug into my processes and did my journaling with great expectation. I went so far as to write love letters to my future partner. I experienced her and spoke to her and loved her already with all my heart regardless that she did not yet exist in my life. She did appear not long afterwards and is now my beautiful wife and partner.


Cheryl also practiced the Law of Attraction and was writing her processes about me as well. We did create each other. Now together we go forward and co-create our future. Everyday we set our highest priority to choose thoughts that make us feel good and vibrate the highest we possibly can. That is the key. We both understand that the Law of Attraction will match our higher vibration and bring more of it to us. Like attracts like. This is an undeniable quantum law of the universe….it is trustworthy and never lets us down.

Our future is being created by us right now, by how we vibrate. It is up to us what life we will live. We are calling it forth every moment. If a thought feels good, think it. If it doesn’t feel good…change it. This is the great and sacred secret to happiness I have searched for my whole life. This is the secret to having it all and living happily ever after.